What (Else) is New?
Last time we spoke, it was my birthday! I'm 40 now and that feels really gross to say. IDK! But life is good like my friends said it would be, though I feel inadequate at times because of housing situations etc. However ain't none of that shit my fault and, like everything, it's all working out for my GOOD.
I hate social media but it's a necessary evil. Le sigh. So I share photos on Instagram frequently. Blab on Threads, most recently about Essence Fest. In case you missed those, here are some quick and small photo updates!
My Love Life is Nonexistent
I'll flirt here and there, blah blah. But I keep encountering that feeling of OK WOW THIS IS NICE COULD HE BE immediately followed by, as the kids say, the ick. A gentleman would have to move the moon and stars at this point, for me to take him seriously.
Franklin Made 11!
We went to jump around at Altitude in Slidell and then dined at Olive Garden, one of his favorite SURPRISINGLY EXPENSIVE places. Glad he's my best friend! When moms have fallings out with their sons, Lord I just pray that's never us.
I Found $75 and Flipped $10 of that to $100!
After a lunch date at Chapter IV by Dook Chase, my favorite restaurant for showing people New Orleans Creole cuisine, I started fantasizing about finding a $100 bill. Would I put my foot on it and take a quick pic? WELL. Maybe three minutes after that thought, I found $75 in the parking lot! LORD!
Then later, or the next day, I went to check on my friend. Ended up at a convenience store in the East looking for a cup of ice (Cane's closes the inside at 5, so the line is dumb stupid crazy long). Something said get a lottery ticket. I looked down and saw a snowball graphic, and said I'll get that scratch-off too. BABY I HIT FOR $100!
And honestly, I think it's all because I was doing nice things for friends. Got one an Uber after our lunch date (he tried to walk from his hotel but the heat got him lol); before that I went to Walmart to get my bestie's family some unconventional but useful bereavement supplies; I went to sit and keep my friend company and try to help around the house.  Housing Situation
Very much trash! Glad to finally have consistent hot water, but this is all dumb and I hate it and I'm trying my best to quickly move to New Orleans East. Eager to see how God and the Blessed Mother etc will help me get a house after years of being unemployed (thank GOD that's over) with credit I'm rebuilding from those years aaaand not no whole lot of money. But. Stranger things have happened! It will work for me!

Career Transition
This year, and for the foreseeable future, I'll be busy with The New Orleans East Sunshine Weekly. So I've been turning down most things that steal my time without any New Orleans East connection. And LORD that is a SACRIFICE! I'm fasting real bad! You know I loved being wined and dined. Didn't even bother getting my Tales of the Cocktail media credential this year.
To be clear, I'm still accepting assignments. That's money! But, I'm politely declining most hosted dinners and the like. Also it's just really influencer-y and I am NOT AN INFLUENCER so I just wanna scream when I'm at most of those events. Protecting my peace, saving my energy.
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